I've been in the same relationship for almost a decade now and boy are there days when I just want to throw it all away and start over.. and then this haunting thought keeps creeping back in. Is it worth throwing it all away or should I overlook certain things and look at the bright side?Coz believe me, there are days when I feel like I'm the luckiest woman out there.
My guy is loving, caring, peaceful, non-confrontational (which works against him at times), somewhat knowledgeable about women's cycles and moods, a feminist himself, is a fabulous listener, helps around the kitchen more often than not, pitches in with house chores (when asked!).
And yet, there are days where I just wanna scream! How is that possible?
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Dear Blogger
ReplyDeleteThe reason you feel this way is due to the fact that human beings are never satisfied.
Boredom is another factor (the desease of the west)If he is not bad and you feel good in his arms dont even think to throw the towel. The grass is never greener on the other side and if it is it will not last green. If he nurtures you, nurture him back, keep yourself busy and look in the same direction.
Dear Aphrodite, it's clear that your sex-life is in jeopardy as, otherwise, you would be way too busy having wild orgasms to think of giving it all up...so buy some errotica, lubricants etc and get on with it..
ReplyDeleteLove,
Rola
Dear Anonymous Author,
ReplyDeleteYou're right, during difficult times, especially when the stress level goes up, we feel overwhelmed with the number of things we have to get done, and our "list" becomes endless. We get frustrated because we never get around to doing everything on the list and we expect our partner to pitch in. This is when we realize that we do come from different planets given that our priorities differ tremendously. We feel frustrated, alone, misunderstood, overwhelmed and angry that our partner isn't helping.
Our Martian partner, feels that he's fulfilling his duties by providing and being there 'physically'. He feels our frustration and automatically retreats into his bubble to avoid conflict. Instead of delegating some of the things on the list that may be important to us but not as important to our partner, we end up snapping and sweating the small stuff.
Rola, you're right, in moments like that, the sex life is in jeopardy, because as women, when we feel that we're not emotionally fulfilled and supported, we just aren't that much into it.
Luv, xxx